Why are girls so… COMPLICATED?

Agosto 13, 2008

     

      This past few days… I have this guy friend. He is having a problem with his girl, hindi nia daw ito maintindihan, one moment ang sweet sweet ni “girl”, and with just a blink on an eye iba na yung mood nia, nagtataray na, hindi na xa kinakausap nito. Ayun, nakukunsumi ako sa kakakulit ni “guy” ako ang tinatanong kung bakit daw ganun yung girlfriend nia, gusto na nga daw niang sakalin minsan, hahaha.

      Sabi ko naman “ganun talaga ang mga babae tol, we are born to make you guys live your life miserably” sabay tawa. hahaha “Hindi ito seryoso na, if you wanna make your relationsip last you need to understand her, you need to be SENSITIVE, dapat alam mo kung kelan masaya o malungkot ang partner mo kahit iba ang pinapakita  nia sayo, kasi girls usually hide what they feel..

      tumataginting na “BAKIT?” ang sagot ni guy sakin.,

      “reason? kasi sabi nila (namin pala, sanasabi ko din pla to, haha) ayaw namin na may nag aalala for us. or pwede rin naman na ayaw lang namin na makita nio ang kahinaan namin like you guys do. now, bakit hindi mo maintindihan si girl? one sweet and the other momment biglang naging tigress? maybe because you did something witout “you” noticing it. ”

    “ha? ang gulo naman. e di kung may nagawa kming mali bakit hindi sabihin agad? para mapag usapan”

   “this you need to know, ang babae, kapag may “nararamdaman” we dont usually tell it, we show it. that is why i am telling you that you NEED to be sensitive with her.”

     “GIRLS are making simple things complicated. pwede naman nilang sabihin agad, bakit kailangan pang mag inarte, c’mon kat babae ka, ganun ka din ba?”

      natawa ako ng malakas nung marinig ko ung tanong na yun. “ako? ganun? haha mas grabe pa ako jan, hindi mo ako gugustuhing maging girlfriend, baka kung lahat ng babae ay katulad ko baka isumpa mo na ang mga babae”

     “OA naman, ok ka naman ah, your sweet and funny.”

      “sa friends, oo. pag girlfriend definitely not, ofcourse friend kita i cant demand things na gaya ng denedemand ko kapag boyfriend ko. hindi rin ako pwedeng mag inarte sa inyo dahil friends ko nga kau, friendship is a lot different sa “romantic” relationship. alam mo tol, your girlfriend is sweet, mabait, cute and all, what se need is assurance, its what girls are waiting. ASSURANCE. assurance that you love her and she is the ONLY one. that you will never leave her.”

 

       i dont know why i did this blog, for meit doesn’t make sense, nagkagulo gulo na. hindi ko na alam kung ano ang thought nung sinulat ko, well anyway what i know is,this blog is about girls. This is just my opinion, i know ay iba iba taung ugali towards this, this is just base on what i have noticed around me.

Would you dare believe this? or you will still stick on what you have been believing for your whole life?

Agosto 7, 2008

 

after watching the movie let me know your opinion. thanks